While reminiscing my previous experiences as designer/mediator, I realized that my most important role isn't always played as designer, but in playing the monkey in the middle. I don't mind being the monkey in the middle because it's part of the journey. If we never trample through the rough spots, we'll never get to the pretty ones.
I used a somewhat personal example. You see, my husband had an afghan that his Grandmother made for him a very long time ago, it was orange and brown, and had holes in it. It even caught on fire once. Long story. Anyway, he wanted to use it on the couch in our first apartment. Out where everyone could see it!
I hated it! I thought it was ugly! It was not even close to being "Kelle Dame Approved". I did eventually find it in my heart to let it live on the couch knowing how special it was to the Mr.
I do not have pictures to share, and the afghan did eventually bite the dust ( it wasn't me!), but I do have a concept board showing just how I would incorporate the infamous afghan into a bedroom design:
It's not so bad when it's turned into a funky pillow! Can you spot it?
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